I want to honor two Women of Influence in my life this week, because they are each graduating from different venues of learning. Great women – please read on:
Woman of Influence: Rose
Rose Wierzba is graduating with a Master’s Degree in Counseling on Saturday. She is a non-traditional student, mother of three college age kids, a successful nurse, who has finished up a bachelor’s degree and a Master’s Degree in the last three years, also while working part-time. On top of that, she drove two hours each way to class, and has spend more time on the road than in the classroom at times. A real trooper. Determined. Persistent.
Rose and I are wired the same way. We do our work first, then rest. We are ESFJ’s – being providers of those whom we are responsible for, whether that be children, clients, etc. Rose has a gift of working with the elderly, and has taken care of elderly neighbors when someone needed to intervene for their health. She has gone through difficult trials in her life relating to other’s needs, but she has always done what is best for the other person, even when it hurts. She doesn’t give up, and she is strong when strength is needed. If you were in the hospital or have mental health needs, you would want Rose for your caregiver. She would not leave any detail overlooked, and she would tell you straight up what her concerns are. She’s not a mincer for words, but she is gentle, caring, and genuine. You can trust Rose with anything. She will look out for your best, and she’s got your back.
Add to that a great sense of humor, and you have got the making of a Woman of Influence. What I have learned from Rose is:
- “Don’t worry what other people think.” Rose is my most honest source of genuine feedback. She encourages me when it’s appropriate but says, “Wait a minute” when I may want to reconsider something. She is a confidence builder, because I know what she says is accurate. She doesn’t embellish or have ego issues.
- “It is what it is.” If you can’t change it, then accept it, and move on. If you can change it and it’s worth the fuss, then take the proper procedures to do so.
- Use humor to lighten the load. Without the humor, we would not have survived some of the events of the last two years.
- Buy a great pair of glasses to make you look like you know something. She has great pink ones, and she got the idea from our hero, Dr. Tom.
- There are people in the world you can count on. She won’t gossip behind your back or put on pretenses. She will help with dirty work because she knows you need help. She will listen to you, no matter what. No judgment. She knows your character, and that’s what she has faith in.
- Be yourself. We have been learning this together, she and I. Helen and I can laugh like schoolyard friends at a slumber party. She knows just about everything about me. And she still likes me. She’s a keeper.
- Love your husband, and work to keep the romance alive. She’s the best at this. She has such freedom in loving her husband.
- Friends compliment each other. We are not two peas in a pod, more like Jack and Jill. We can work together and feel comfortable. That’s a rare thing to have someone you feel completely relaxed with, and I am blessed to have Helen as one of those friends I can rest with. She’s really my sister, I say, we just have different mothers.
Congratulations, Helen, for being a Woman of Influence, for me, and anyone you are around. You light up the room (I feel a song coming on….)
This week, I want to honor my friends, the Graduates, and Women of Influence, Rose and Helen.
May those who know you, honor you, and those who read this be blessed by your influence.